How it works
Two ways in, and a person at every step.
Follow your own column. The two routes are deliberately different, because one of them opens the matching tools and the other never does.
If you are single
You are taken on, not listed
- 1You applyFive short steps, about twelve minutes, on your phone.
- 2A person reads itWe may call the references you give us.
- 3One matchmaker takes you onThey introduce themselves to you directly.
- 4Introductions come to youSuggested by the system, decided by your matchmaker.
There is no login, and nothing for you to browse. That is on purpose.
If you are a matchmaker
You are vetted, then given the tools
- 1You apply with referencesTwo, one of them rabbinic.
- 2We check standingReferences are called, not filed.
- 3You are approvedOnly then is a sign in sent to you.
- 4The matching system opensIt proposes. You decide, every time.
No approval, no access. There is no self serve route in.
What we ask, and why.
The questionnaire is longer than a dating app and shorter than a form at the doctor. We ask about community and observance because it matters to the people you will meet. We ask about family because a shidduch involves more than two people. We ask for two references because a person, not a score, decides who joins.